Nice guys do finish last. Well, kinda. /rant

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  1. vaught

    vaught New Member

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    I did say I've given up. A few times actually. So what if I'm 'best friend guy' or what have you. I honestly don't care. If I really wanted someone as a partner, I'd actually keep trying and put myself out there. Actually read these little quips about 'how to get women' self-help guidelines and all that fun.

    Am I too soft? Perhaps. Would I have it any other way? Nah. I'm not convinced another person can make my life any better. The times I was with someone, life was actually more painful than it should've been. So maybe I will end up in a sexless, depressing life. Big deal, sex isn't the grand goal of life. I'd rather be fulfilled in my career field than finally have sex.

    Am I at peace? Dunno. Am I happy? Dunno. Do I think another person can make my life any different? Doubtful.

    After a while, I just realized it wasn't all that worthwhile. It isn't all what it's made up to be and I'm just not someone that anyone desires, which is why I've just given up in total. Maybe it is a silent protest of some kind, but I'm fine as is.
  2. Undercover_Thudercat

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    These are all excuses you are making in order to avoid the potential failure that is inevitably comes before success. But deep down, you already know this.
  3. vaught

    vaught New Member

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    Say what you will, but I'm fine as is.
  4. De Troll

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    Vaught, would you like a hug?
  5. ZOoo00OOm

    ZOoo00OOm New Member

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    By your own logic with the issue of confidence, then shouldn't guy B have relationships later on in life, one of which can/will turn into a meaningful? By the characteristics of B, he shouldn't shave troubles as women's attraction for an Alpha Male does not fade over the years.
  6. Undercover_Thudercat

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    Because women need the guy A parts, too. Guy B never "grows up" and won't settle down. Girls do need the nice guy qualities, they just want them to come from Guy B.
  7. Undercover_Thudercat

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    To go further into it, if you really dissect the whole process from meeting to sex, it kinda goes like this:

    Step 1 - you meet a girl
    Step 2 - You build attraction
    Step 3 - You build trust and comfort
    Step 4 - you have sex, form relationships, etc

    Guy A tries to skip step 2 and just build trust and comfort, even though the girl isn't attracted to him. Guy B just stays in step 2 and never really builds trust and comfort. But he's so attractive that girls will still sleep with him, and then think about him all the time because they so desperately want to "tame the badboy" and form a connection with him.
  8. vaught

    vaught New Member

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    Not sure if backhanded comment. But hell, I love hugs.
  9. ZOoo00OOm

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    And say the woman realizes that she can't tame the badboy, that she likes his whole package (personality, physical, etc.). Does this not end in a meaningful relationship?
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  11. ZOoo00OOm

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    ^
    Yes. If you speak with your heart, you'll sometimes say things that are reveling.
  12. JON10395

    JON10395 New Member

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    10 pages? Wow.
  13. joker

    joker Active Member

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    this is how i feel lol i didnt realize this was such a hot/difficult topic
  14. JON10395

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    Seriously though, what shammas said should have ended this thread.

    Everyone else who responded beyond that just said what he said but in different words.
  15. grayfox

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    Didn't read the pages.

    Make money. Get educated. Live a greater like than the slumdog sheets.

    Don't worry about women until you are out of college. Only take them if they fall in your lap. Otherwise, do what makes you happy other than women.

    Find a B. No one gets an A. Find a B. She's probably going to be local, sorry. Get married at 35 after you've had your days. Have two kids. Make sure you get a boy, so go further if you need to. Teach all of them what you can. Accept that some will be better than others, but try and treat them all the same. Learn family politics. Don't screw up, keep the investments safe. Hopefully you didn't have too many kids so you can send them to college safely funds-wise.

    Once the kid is 22 out of college, on his first job, he's not your problem. Your part's done, old man. Keep what you can for yourself, only help the kids if they get knee deep in the mire. If your kid has to eat hot dogs for half a year, don't help him. Help him with medical emergencies, a part of the rent for the first two years, and that's it.

    You're almost 60. Hopefully your wife didn't turn out to be a banshee. Continue your job until it gets to the point where you don't enjoy it or the government makes it economically unprofitable. Hope you have enough left on you. Live to 80, anything after that is all blessings. Don't go on life support, let yourself go.




    That is the life on an educated Irishman in America. Can't say it's too bad. Course, the current situation for after 60 is looking uglier.
  16. meat

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    I've just watched EP 13...
    She's a f*cking NUTCASE!!!
    I've already read all of its comics and I swear, she'll be 10 times as worse than now.
    I still love her though...
  17. jaysofacton

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    Is it subbed yet?
  18. meat

    meat New Member

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    Subs available now!
  19. iammclovin117

    iammclovin117 Active Member

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    Thank's guys, I met another girl who I think is better for me, and is about as big of a nerd as me. Thanks for all the advice. But keep this unlocked mods (For anyone else who wants info.)
  20. De Troll

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    Story of MNC!
    Kidding, I'm kidding...

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