it's never a good talk as well. personally, it was well over two hours each and every single time and whether it started out rather positive and philosophical it always turned into a problem talk. Squishy, I'm taking this opportunity to reach out to you and make the world a better place. (and also be a bro for the other dudes out there) don't do that TT_TT whenever your brain tells you "oh we're going to have the deepest most memorable philosophical inspiring chat, now's the magical hour, I feel it, It's gonna be soooo good, sooo magical! : D" ...don't. your brain is tricking you, you can have UNCALCULABLY better talks in the morning when your brain is feeling all better and is actually well rested. Giving our brain sleep deprivation is one of those bad decisions grown ups (and not-so grown ups) make. Under these conditions, your thinking capabilities and ergo decision-making become impaired, your mood becomes erratic (I say you, but I mean me as well, I have documented and experimented enough with this to have thesis-material). You start thinking one in the morning is a perfect time for a talk, for example, ...you forget all about sleep deprivation and it's effects on the brain. Things seem more twisted and convoluted and plotted and complicated and plain and straightforward seems like something improbable that never happens. sleep deprivation makes one angry, have memory loss and a bunch of other stuff. this is just me but I think my advice on the matter is worth GOLD. AVOID. THE NIGHT TALKS. period. no exceptions. EVER. you can talk in the morning. Don't listen to your brain telling you it'll be so much less philosophical and interesting, that's BULLSHIT. your brain doesn't know what it's on about, it's high of the lack of sleep. And your lover isn't going to magically evaporate in the night. He'll be there, by your side in the morning, ready for a talk. I GUARANTEE IT.
Is it weird that I stay up 'till 4am every day playing Don't Starve Together? -w- Or that when I was thinking of such talks I was imagining about gaems? :>
I guess if you don't talk it works... look I gave my advice, it's take it or leave it, now I'll shut up on the matter.
that's virtually THE difference between clark kent and superman in the cartoon network superman. pretty convincing disguise eh?