Today in an 8 player 4 team match, the host paused when he was about to die, then left when he did. For the rest of the game, the game paused itself a moment after anyone unpaused. Will upload a replay later if I can figure out where they're stored. =3
Replays are only stored on the server. All you can do is report the id number shown in the replays list. I usually have to flip the "my/all" setting a few times (and wait for it to update each time) to get it to change to "my"