As some of you don't now, I've had this problem for a week and nothing pointed to why it happened. But guess what. It magically disappeared and my lobby successfully showed on https://palobby.com/ and people joined. Happy Holidays if someone at Uber fixed my account and somehow allowed me to host public lobbies, you are basically santa.
One of the uber devs / owners of the company. He was quite active in the early live streams during development, and made the now anyway famous (in our little community) statement 'were not shooting for realism, were shooting for *awesome!!!*'